Wednesday, June 4, 2014

Liam at THREE Years Old

Seriously. That went by fast. Liam is three! He is no longer a toddler. He is an amazing child. As I write in every post about him, he's really smart. He loves to learn and asks me questions all the time. For awhile, he kept asking me all the time what kind of foods different animals ate. He is definitely Curious Liam. He loves to play with his many trains and imagine different scenarios for them. Usually one train is stuck and another has to help get him out. I love hearing his imaginative narration. He's very much into pretend play in general these days.

Of course his feisty personality is still in place. It wasn't just a twos thing after all, ha! Liam is not what I would call laid-back at all. He's quite demanding and as he says, "I want all that I want." I'd be lying if I said we hadn't given in to his demands just to avoid a very loud display of disappointment! Of course, this behavior usually presents itself when he is tired. Everything is the worst if he's tired or hungry. He definitely gets "hangry" sometimes, but will still turn down the many options for food he's being offered. Anyone with children knows firsthand you can't reason with a three year old, especially if conditions are not perfectly perfect. That's why blogs exist of children crying with captions of perfectly nice and reasonable things you did for them that still resulted in tears. I know I write about this aspect of Liam in pretty much every post about him, but I don't want to think back on these times many years from now and, having forgotten most of it, think he took it easy on us. That just isn't true! I want to remember the good and the bad. Even though I am mentioning the bad, Liam really is good the majority of the time. He still enjoys going to church for different things, and he behaves really well there. So I know he's capable of it!

Some of Liam's favorites:

Food: His favorite meal is definitely veggie "chicken" nuggets and broccoli with sauce (aka ketchup).  Every three year old loves chicken nuggets, right? He just gets the veggie version. Other favorite foods include PB&J sandwiches, breakfast time (which is oatmeal with pureed fruit and veggies mixed in. This is something he started eating a long time ago and he still likes it and it's easy to make, so therefore he still eats it.), cheese, yogurt, bananas, seaweed snacks, and any carb you can imagine. His favorite drink is water and that's pretty much the only liquid he will really drink. He doesn't like to drink milk or juice, but I will usually mix in some milk with his breakfast time.

Toys: He has quite the collection of wooden Thomas trains along with tracks. These are what he mostly plays with (if his room is clean and there's enough room to build a track!). Balls are also a fave these days, and he's gotten pretty good at throwing overhand and underhand. He's also starting to do well at catching balls, but that's a pretty recent thing. He's also decent at running and kicking a soccer ball at the same time. He finally got the play kitchen for his birthday (that we bought a year ago and never put together), so he likes to cook fruits and "begetables" too.

Activity: He loves to do art, whether it's painting with watercolors (the only paint allowed inside!) or drawing with crayons or markers. If he's freestyling, the art is definitely still abstract and he has to explain what he drew. But if I draw a picture for him to paint or color, he has started trying hard to stay in the lines and has also started coloring objects the color they should be. For example, he will paint a tree with green leaves and brown bark. His suns are always yellow, and his rainbows are all different colors (as they should be). Just a few months ago, he had no regard for correct colors. He's still a novice when it comes to scissors. We work on it regularly, and he's starting to get the hang of it, but he still wants to turn his hand upside down to cut or try holding the scissors with both hands, and he quickly realizes that won't work.

Person: I can easily say his favorite person these days is Gibson. For better or for worse, he always wants to be near Gibson. He loves hugging him and patting him on the head. He ends up getting a lot of warnings from us about being too close and smothery. He wants to play with Gibson's toys, lay beside him on the bed, and give him big hugs when he's in his bouncy seat. The love is definitely there; we just have to work on safe execution of displays of love. Liam will talk to Gibson as if he could respond. One day after Liam had to have a time out in his bed, he went over to Gibson and said (sadly), "Mama put me in the bed." He'll also tell him random stuff like, "I'm wearing a red shirt today, Gibson." He shows him his artwork as well. I love that he wants to include Gibson in his activities. He very much wants to play with Gibson, but that really just involves piling toys on top of him. Gibson seems to enjoy Liam as well. He usually gives him big grins, but sometimes he gives him concerned looks too! Liam has also gotten Gibson to laugh twice so far, which is the same number of times I've been able to get the elusive giggles out him as well!

Miscellaneous Favorites: playing outside in the dirt, playing with and talking about his friends (It's so awesome that he knows all their names and can remember details about them.), getting to watch TV (Lately he's been watching Go, Diego, Go and Little Pim Spanish videos.), eating treats like cake and donuts (very rare), putting together puzzles, reading books with mama or looking at the pictures and describing his version of what's happening, playing games on the tablet, and being helpful (He puts away his plastic dishes and cups from the dishwasher and is pretty good at retrieving items you ask him to get.)

Least Favorite Things: taking a nap, having to go to bed at night (although he'll typically sleep about 12 hours or more once he stops fighting it and goes to sleep), pretty much having to do anything that's NOT his idea, ha!

Skills:

-Counts 1-20 (still skipping 15), then says, "100, 0, 80." Sometimes he then goes back and counts 21-29, but he keeps going by saying, "20-10, 20-11, etc.)
-Counts 1-10 in Spanish (Thanks, Little Pim! We work with him on that too, though.)
-Can maneuver his fingers to hold up a number. This is easier with his right hand.
-Can count the correct number of objects in a group
-Sings the entire ABC song in the correct melody, warbling the LMNOP part
-Can write the letters L and I. This is a new skill we're working on
-Knows his full name and recognizes his name when it's written
-Can draw circles and lines, but not really any other shapes
-Can name plenty of shapes including square, circle, rectangle, diamond, oval, and star. He has trouble with the "gons" and usually calls them all "pixagons"
-Can stack block towers taller than his head
-Can jump with both feet off the ground
-Eats well with a spoon and fork
-Can drink from an open cup
-Speaks in sentences all the time
-Pretends to be different animals
-Can brush teeth, but we get a turn brushing them as well
-Can identify and name traits of many animals, including the sounds they make
-Correctly uses "this and that," and "here and there
-Can sort objects by size or color
-Knows all the normal colors
-Knows the difference between big and little, up and down, hot and cold, etc.
-Can pretend play and make up stories
-Knows our real names, but still calls us mama and daddy
-Can sing some songs from memory or makes up words to common melodies like Jingle Bells. He has his own version of Rick Rolling us where we ask him to sing a specific song and he busts out with "Ring Around the Rosy" even though that's not what we asked him to sing!

I'm sure there's more, but it's impossible to remember everything. Some of the skills we are currently working on or will be in the near future include potty training (I know it will be a disaster if it's not his idea, but I think he's close to being ready.), putting on and taking off clothes (still needs a little assistance), cutting with scissors, writing letters, and putting on and taking off shoes.

When he's upset (happens pretty often as he is quite the dramatic child), he will roar at us or sing the line, "Come again some other day!" Or scream. Yeah, that still happens. He will also run away, which is bad if we're in public!

I've been trying to write down funny things he says more and more. For Mother's Day, I got a Q&A book with a question a day to ask Liam for the next 3 years. He doesn't always understand some of the questions as I think it's meant for kids who are a little older, but I still try to get a response out of him. Here are a couple from the book:

What is the wildest thing you've ever done? I can turn into a roly poly. Like this. (on his back with feet on his face) Now turn me back into a boy.

If you could fly right now, where would you go? I can fly like a pigeon. I fly to get ice cream from the ice cream truck. (he's never gotten ice cream from an ice cream truck, btw.)

And some random quotes I happened to write down:

Wow, Gibson is growing up! (5-27-14)

I love piggy bank rides. (5-28-14)

(Waving his "magic wand") I will turn Gibson into a tomato! (5-30-14)

Me: Liam, where are you going? Liam: The wrong way. I'm going the wrong way. (5-30-14)

I want to jump in the TV so I can get some presents. (5-31-14) He talks a lot about wanting to jump into TV and books.

He's not a boy right now. He's a baby. (6-4-14)

His stats at his 3 year check up were 38 inches tall (50th percentile) and 32.6 pounds (50th percentile). So he is thoroughly average-sized.

The night before he turned three:



He's so beautiful. We joke that if could sit still and follow directions, he could be a child model!

These are some cell phone photos from the past couple of months. I need to do a photo shoot with him soon!





































Friday, April 11, 2014

Gibson at Two (and a Half) Months Old

Gibson will be 11 weeks old in a couple of days. He is a sweet little guy and still a little snuggler.

He had his two month check up last week and these were his stats:

Weight: 12 pounds, 7 ounces (90th percentile)
Height: 24 inches (the sheet says 99th percentile, but I was told he was actually off the charts!)
Head Size: 16 inches (98th percentile)

He's a big baby! I'm wondering about the percentiles, though. I looked back at Liam's 2 month stats, and the weight and height are exactly the same, but they put him in the 75th percentile for weight and 80th percentile for height. Hmmm...It's a different doctor, but surely they use the same chart. It's pretty cool, though, that they were the same size at the same age. Liam's head was only 15 inches at 2 months, but he also had a large flat spot. I'm still not sure which way his eyes will go. In pictures, they look brown to me, but in person they are still bluish/gray. I want him to have brown eyes. He definitely has a darker complexion than Liam. He's not tan or anything, but I think he will have the ability to tan! Liam has porcelain white skin like I had, and I don't really tan. We think Gibson will end up looking more like Will. He has outgrown all newborn clothes, and wears mainly 3 month and 0-3 month stuff.

A couple of weeks ago, Gibson finally stopped sleeping on top of me at night. Since then, he divides his time between his crib and laying in the crook of my arm beside me in the bed. It's still not ideal, but I do have hope he will continue to sleep for longer stretches in his crib. I've definitely gotten used to having him close by, though. I usually wake up to sweet smiles from him.

In the past month, Gibson has started to do a whole lot of smiling! I'm the one who gets most of the smiles, and all I have to do is smile at him and his face will usually light up. Will and Liam get plenty of smiles too, though. I think I just spend more time face to face with him. I typically get lots of smiles when I change his diaper. No giggles yet, but he does make cooing noises. His first sound has been "agoo" just like Liam's was. Gibson is definitely vocalizing a lot more and does it in response of being spoken to, just because he feels like it, or if he's talking to his teddy bear. When he's upset (which isn't very often), his crying is a lot louder than it used to be. He has definitely been finding his voice this month.

Gibson does like his big brother, but I still have to keep them separated a lot because of Liam. By separated, I mean not touching, not in completely different rooms or something like that. I kind of wish Liam would just ignore Gibson a little bit more, but instead he wants to touch him and mess with him. A lot. Out of love. Out of disobedience to mama and daddy some too. When we try to get him to stop, Liam tries harder. Very frustrating. I tried letting him just see what he would do without interfering yesterday while Gibson was sitting in his bouncy chair. Liam lunged at Gibson and ended up hitting him on the belly. It made Gibson cry, but he stopped as soon as I picked him up, so I think it really just scared him. Still, these days nothing makes me angrier faster than Liam trying to get at Gibson. That's why Liam is getting his own baby doll (yes, a doll!) this week so I can tangibly teach him how to treat a baby. Hopefully that will help.

As a result of Liam's unpredictability, Gibson doesn't get to spend hardly any time at all on the floor. He would surely get trampled. He does tummy time in his crib, but hasn't gotten to play with many toys yet since Liam also tries to take those as well. Such is the life of a little brother, I guess.

I've taken both boys out by myself more this month, as in twice (as opposed to zero times). Both times went well and gave me confidence that I can handle it. Of course, when you have your second child, you realize just how easy a tiny baby is compared to when they become mobile and beyond. So yeah it's alright now because Gibson usually snoozes the whole time! In one day (actually in the span of only 3 hours), I took both boys to have their picture made, out to eat in an "estraunt," and to Gibson's two month appointment. It was exhausting, but everyone behaved.

Also this month, we went as a family to Day Out with Thomas (see previous post) but Gibson slept the entire time strapped to me in the wrap. Gibson and I also took a quick 12 hour trip to Louisiana so I could visit my dad in the hospital. My sweet friend Kelli babysat Gibson while I was at the hospital. He did great on the trip and slept the entire way there and back.

Gibson is still breastfeeding as much as he can and drinking formula to make up the difference. He does well with both and we're both still happy with the situation, and this time around I know that's the most important thing. Any day that he gets even one drop of breastmilk, I will count it as a victory. I can still count on one hand the number of times he has spit up since he was born. He likes to eat, and he belches like a 45 year old man. It's awesome. Gibson has also had eczema at times as well as the good ole cradle cap. Liam had and still has some eczema, which we found out was caused by a cat allergy. Gibson's may or may not be cause by the same thing.

This time around, I'm definitely enjoying this newborn/infant stage much more. I look at Gibson and thank God for him all the time. He is a blessing to our family for sure. At this point with Liam, we were in the middle of thrush, tummy troubles, and still being scared new parents. It's definitely easier and more enjoyable this time. I love having two sons!

Week Five:
Wearing pants accentuates the belly

Looking at Liam wondering what he's going to do next

First trip to Babies R Us

Gibson Flying (V)...guitar joke, guys

Five weeks old

Literally his most favorite place in the world. Literally

Week Six:
Hi there.

Getting messed with

Making eye contact with the camera

Six weeks old

Sleepy face

First family trip to Target (mid yawn). Not impressed.

Week Seven:
Starting to bust out of the newborn clothes

Giving the camera the stare-down

Seven weeks old

Handsome boy

Snoozin' on mama

Week Eight:
Daddy smooches

More snoozes on mama

Trying out our new double stroller. Thankfully Liam hasn't pulled that move while in motion

Had cradle cap between the eyes for awhile

Relaxing on the front porch. Attracted several neighbors.

Sleepy derp face

Sleeping in his crib. The pad is from a sleeper we have but he doesn't use (yet). He does like to lay on the warm, fuzzy pad though.

Liam is always messing with his toys

Eight weeks old

Gibson and Stig







Saturday, March 29, 2014

Day Out with Thomas

Yesterday (March 28) all four of us went to Grapevine to an event called Day Out with Thomas. Liam has been OBSESSED with Thomas and his friends since last summer. Thomas only comes around once a year, so we had to wait until now for Liam to see his favorite train in person.

Trying to do anything fun with Liam these days is hit or miss. The likelihood of a meltdown that ruins the day is usually pretty high. We knew we couldn't pass up this opportunity, though, and decided the risk was worth it. We went on a Friday afternoon on purpose. That way it wouldn't be as crowded and the kids would mostly be preschool age since school would be in at the time. Our assumptions were correct, and a chance of rain made for a very sparse crowd.

We got to downtown Grapevine and parked within walking distance of the event. (I bet it's much crazier today on the weekend.) The event is set up like a small Thomas-themed fair. There was a tent with train tables for playing, an entertainer making balloon animals and singing, a large model train set up for viewing, a couple of fair food stands (think funnel cake and corn dogs), a petting zoo, and a small train ride. There was also a blacksmith working, but I think that is part of the vintage feel of the Grapevine rail depot and always there. Of course, there was also the full-sized train ride with Thomas at the front and a chance for kids to meet and have their picture taken with Sir Topham Hatt, the controller of the railway on the island of Sodor.

Walking up to the depot, we could see Thomas from across the street. Liam's eyes lit up and the huge smile on his face while he exclaimed, "It's Thomas!" was worth it all. He was seriously very happy to see Thomas.

Once we were in the event, the first place we went was the tent with lots of train tables set up. Real estate was valuable in this place and the toy trains were pretty much all taken. It was difficult for Liam to find a train to play with and a spot he was happy with. It was full of toddlers and preschoolers who haven't learned how to suppress the urge to grab something out of someone's hand if they see something they want. So Liam had trains taken right out of his hand twice (by the same girl!), and both times resulted in Liam screaming and running out of the tent crying. He has just recently started an extremely bad habit of running away if he gets upset, which is not good at all in a public situation. Will caught him and calmed him down, and Liam still wanted to play. Thankfully, he did find a couple of trains to play with that were not taken from him. The situation made me tense. Little kids are so grabby! Liam was definitely not the only kid having a tough time in there.

We finally convinced him to move on out of that tent, so we looked at the model train for a few minutes. Of course Liam was upset that he couldn't touch it. Pretty soon after that, it was time to get in line for our ride on the big train. Once we found our seats in the vintage coach, Liam started getting super squirmy. The only way to keep him seated was to give him snacks. I'm not sure if snacks were allowed, but they didn't tell us they weren't! Finally the train started moving down the track...slowly. The train ride goes about 10 minutes down the line and then goes back to the station. So you end up sitting backwards for half the ride. There wasn't much to look at on the ride: mainly just trees without leaves, some houses, and you can see the Gaylord Texan and Great Wolf Lodge off in the distance. Pretty underwhelming, but we were riding on Thomas! Unfortunately, I don't think Liam was impressed at all by it.

After the train ride, we walked over to get a closer look at Thomas. There was a line where you could get an "official" picture taken with Thomas, but we opted for just looking on from the side. Liam did not want his picture taken at that point. There were also some large pictures of trains set up, and I tried to get Liam to take a picture in front of one of them, but he wasn't into it. I think I got one of him just kicking the dirt in front of it. We then walked down to see Sir Topham Hatt. Liam and Will took a picture with him and Liam got a sticker. After that, we all took a ride on the little train set up on a grassy area, and looked at the petting zoo. We opted to not let Liam go in with the animals. Maybe next year!

The last thing for us to do there was visit the Thomas gift shop. They had Thomas everything! Liam immediately started grabbing items like he was on a Nickelodeon Super Toy Run in 1992. We reeled him back in and Will held him while we looked around. We ended up getting a 2 DVD set that came with two rare wooden trains for a great deal. We also got him a Day Out with Thomas freight car, but it's a 2012 model so it was really cheap!

All in all, we had a fun time at Day Out with Thomas. There was minimal whining and complaining from Liam, but he wasn't really enthusiastic about it all either (except for the first sighting of Thomas and all the merch!). It was still worth going. If Liam is still into Thomas next year, we may very well go again. I'd say we could skip the real train ride (which isn't cheap) and just go to the event (which is free), but I'm sure once we got there, he would insist on riding the train! I'm marking this one in the success column.


Right after the awesome reaction to his first sight of Thomas



Cranky the Crane in block form

Waiting in line for the train


Family photo taken by "The Conductor"


Not wanting to take a picture with Thomas


Not wanting to have his picture taken here

Literally kicking the dirt

Sir Topham Hatt

Riding the little train